The First 72 Hours
You just lost your job. Your brain is doing that thing where it cycles between "I'm fine" and "everything is ruined" every 45 seconds. That's normal. It's also why you need a protocol, not a pep talk.
This skill is a strict triage sequence. It covers the first 4 hours, first 24 hours, and first 72 hours. It does NOT cover finding your next job — that comes later. Right now you need to stop the bleeding: lock down your documents, file for unemployment, figure out health insurance, and do the math on how long your money lasts.
Phone numbers, agencies, and legal references are US-specific. Adapt for your country.
``agent-adaptation
# Localization required — this skill references US-specific programs and laws.
# Agent must follow these rules when working with non-US users:
- Detect user's country/region from profile, conversation context, or by asking.
- If non-US: substitute local equivalents for all jurisdiction-specific steps.
Examples:
- Unemployment filing → JobSeeker's Allowance/Universal Credit (UK),
Employment Insurance (Canada), JobSeeker Payment (Australia),
Arbeitslosengeld I (Germany)
- COBRA health insurance continuation → NHS enrollment (UK — automatic),
OHIP/provincial health (Canada), Medicare/private insurance (Australia)
- ACA Special Enrollment → equivalent health insurance marketplace enrollment
in the user's country
- OWBPA severance review period (21/45 days) → local employment law on
severance notice periods (highly jurisdiction-specific — research carefully)
- W-2/final paycheck timeline → local final pay legislation
- State unemployment agency → national/local equivalent
- Always warn: "This step references US law/programs — I have substituted
[local equivalent], but verify this applies to your specific situation."
- If severance agreement involved: always recommend local employment lawyer review.
- If unsure of jurisdiction: ASK before providing specific legal guidance.
CODEBLOCK0
FIRST 4 HOURS — DO THESE NOW:
1. DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING
You almost certainly have 21 days to review a severance agreement
(45 days if you're over 40, under the OWBPA). Say this exact phrase:
"I appreciate this. I'd like to review it with an advisor before signing."
2. PRESERVE YOUR DOCUMENTS (while you still have access)
Forward to your personal email or save to personal cloud:
□ Performance reviews, positive feedback, awards
□ Your contact list — every colleague, client, vendor
□ Any documentation of your accomplishments with numbers
□ Your benefits enrollment summary (health, dental, vision, 401k)
□ Your most recent pay stubs (you'll need these for unemployment)
□ Your offer letter and any amendments
□ Your employee handbook (especially severance and non-compete sections)
DO NOT take proprietary company information, trade secrets, or
client data. That can get you sued. Take YOUR records about YOU.
3. SCREENSHOT YOUR BENEFITS
□ Health insurance: carrier name, plan name, group number, your ID
□ Last day of coverage (ask HR explicitly — "What is my last day
of health insurance coverage?")
□ 401k balance and provider (Fidelity, Vanguard, etc.)
□ HSA/FSA balance (FSA funds expire — spend them)
□ Life insurance and disability details
□ Any unvested stock or RSU schedule
4. TELL ONE PERSON
Not LinkedIn. Not a group chat. One person you trust. Say: "I lost
my job today. I don't need advice yet, I just need someone to know."
CODEBLOCK1
FIRST 24 HOURS:
1. FILE FOR UNEMPLOYMENT — TODAY
→ Go to your state's Department of Labor website
→ Google: "[your state] file for unemployment"
→ You can file even if you received severance (rules vary by state)
→ You can file even if you were fired (unless for gross misconduct)
→ Benefits start from your FILING DATE, not approval date
→ Waiting costs you money. Every day you delay is a day of benefits lost.
→ If the website is down, call. If the phone is jammed, try at
8:00 AM sharp when lines open.
2. DO THE RUNWAY MATH
This is the single most important number right now:
Checking + Savings + Severance (after tax) = Total Cash
Total Cash / Monthly Expenses = Months of Runway
If runway < 2 months: activate emergency mode (Step 3 becomes urgent)
If runway 2-4 months: you have breathing room but cut spending now
If runway > 4 months: you're okay. Proceed deliberately.
3. DO NOT SIGN THE SEVERANCE AGREEMENT YET
Read it carefully. Look for:
□ Non-compete clauses (how long, how broad, what geography?)
□ Non-disparagement clauses (are they mutual?)
□ General release of claims (what are you giving up?)
□ Reference language (what will they say when called?)
□ COBRA subsidy or extended benefits?
Consider having an employment attorney review it.
Many offer a free 30-minute consultation. The agreement itself
is negotiable — companies expect pushback.
NEGOTIATION POINTS:
- More weeks of severance (standard: 1-2 weeks per year of service)
- Extended health insurance or COBRA subsidy
- Outplacement services
- Positive reference agreement (get it in writing)
- Accelerated stock vesting
- Non-compete modification or removal
- Payment of unused PTO
4. RESIST THE URGE TO JOB SEARCH
Your brain wants to "do something productive." Job searching on
Day 1 is reactive, unfocused, and leads to applying to anything
that moves. You'll make better decisions in 72 hours.
CODEBLOCK2
HEALTH INSURANCE DECISION — MAKE THIS IN 72 HOURS, NOT 72 DAYS:
Option A: COBRA
- Continues your exact same plan
- You pay the FULL premium (employer share + your share + 2% admin fee)
- Typical cost: $600-$2,000/month for individual, more for family
- You have 60 days to elect retroactively
- STRATEGY: Wait to elect. If you have a medical expense in the
gap, elect COBRA retroactively to cover it. If not, you saved
the premiums. This is legal.
Option B: ACA Marketplace (healthcare.gov)
- Job loss is a "qualifying life event" — you get a 60-day
Special Enrollment Period regardless of open enrollment
- Subsidies are based on CURRENT income (which just dropped to $0)
- You may qualify for very low or $0 premium plans
- Go to healthcare.gov or call 1-800-318-2596
- Have your most recent tax return and pay stubs ready
Option C: Spouse's employer plan
- Your job loss triggers a Special Enrollment Period on their plan too
- Usually 30 days to enroll — check with their HR immediately
Option D: Medicaid
- If your income has dropped to near zero, you may now qualify
- Apply at healthcare.gov or your state Medicaid office
- No premiums, no deductibles in most states
- Processing: 1-2 weeks in most states
CODEBLOCK3
EMERGENCY BUDGET — CUT TO SURVIVAL MODE:
Keep paying (in this order):
1. Food and medicine
2. Housing (rent/mortgage)
3. Utilities (electric, water, heat)
4. Transportation (if needed for job search)
5. Health insurance
6. Minimum debt payments ONLY (see debt-survival skill)
Stop paying or reduce immediately:
□ Subscriptions (streaming, gym, software, meal kits)
□ Dining out, delivery, coffee shops
□ Non-essential shopping
□ Extra debt payments (pay minimums only)
Contact proactively:
□ Landlord — ask about hardship deferral BEFORE you miss a payment
□ Mortgage company — ask about forbearance options
□ Utility companies — ask about payment plans or LIHEAP
□ Student loans — apply for income-driven repayment or deferment
□ Car payment — some lenders offer hardship extensions
□ Credit card companies — ask for hardship programs (lower APR,
reduced minimums, deferred payments)
IMPORTANT: Making these calls BEFORE you miss a payment gives you
far more options than calling after. Creditors help people who
communicate. They punish people who go silent.
CODEBLOCK4
THE DON'T LIST:
x Don't cash out your 401k (10% penalty + income tax = losing 30-40%)
x Don't take on new debt to "maintain lifestyle"
x Don't start a business out of panic
x Don't accept the first job offer out of desperation (if you have runway)
x Don't post about it on social media while emotional
x Don't isolate — job loss thrives in silence and shame
x Don't skip filing for unemployment because you "don't need it" or
feel embarrassed. You paid into this system. It's yours.
x Don't make any major financial decisions for 72 hours
CODEBLOCK5 yaml
layoff:
layoff_date: null
employer_name: ""
severance_offered: false
severance_agreement_deadline: null
severance_signed: false
last_day_of_benefits: null
unemployment_filed: false
unemployment_filed_date: null
unemployment_state: ""
cobra_election_deadline: null
cobra_elected: false
marketplace_enrolled: false
health_insurance_decision: null
financial_runway_months: null
monthly_expenses: null
total_available_cash: null
documents_preserved: false
emergency_budget_created: false
phase: "first_4_hours"
contacts_preserved: false
four_oh_one_k_provider: ""
four_oh_one_k_balance: null
hsa_balance: null
fsa_balance: null
fsa_deadline: null
checklist:
signed_nothing: false
filed_unemployment: false
preserved_documents: false
screenshotted_benefits: false
told_someone: false
calculated_runway: false
insurance_decision_made: false
emergency_budget_active: false
CODEBLOCK6 yaml
triggers:
- name: severance_deadline_warning
condition: "severance_offered AND NOT severance_signed"
delay: "3 days before severance_agreement_deadline"
action: "Severance agreement deadline approaching. Remind user of their remaining time. If they haven't consulted an attorney, recommend a free employment law consultation. List negotiation points they haven't addressed."
- name: unemployment_filing_nudge
condition: "NOT unemployment_filed"
delay: "24 hours after layoff_date"
action: "Unemployment has not been filed. Every day of delay is lost benefits. Provide direct link to the user's state unemployment portal. Offer to help gather required information (employer name, dates, last pay stub)."
- name: cobra_election_deadline
condition: "NOT cobra_elected AND NOT marketplace_enrolled"
delay: "45 days after last_day_of_benefits"
action: "COBRA election window closing in 15 days. User has not made a health insurance decision. Compare COBRA cost vs. marketplace options at current income level. Flag urgency."
- name: insurance_gap_check
condition: "last_day_of_benefits IS SET AND NOT cobra_elected AND NOT marketplace_enrolled"
delay: "7 days after last_day_of_benefits"
action: "User currently has no health insurance. Present options: retroactive COBRA election (still available for 60 days), marketplace Special Enrollment Period, Medicaid if income qualifies. Emphasize that the COBRA backdating strategy only works within the 60-day window."
- name: phase_advancement
condition: "phase = 'first_4_hours' AND documents_preserved"
action: "First 4 hours checklist substantially complete. Advance phase to 'first_24_hours'. Present next set of actions: file unemployment, calculate runway, review severance."
- name: fsa_expiration_warning
condition: "fsa_balance > 0 AND fsa_deadline IS SET"
delay: "14 days before fsa_deadline"
action: "FSA funds expire soon. Remaining balance will be lost. Advise user to schedule medical appointments, buy glasses, fill prescriptions, or purchase eligible items to use remaining funds."
- name: weekly_stabilization_check
condition: "phase != 'stabilized'"
schedule: "weekly"
action: "Review checklist completion. Identify any critical items still unfinished (unemployment, insurance, budget). Generate status summary and next actions."
``
前72小时
你刚刚失业了。你的大脑正在经历那种每45秒在我没事和一切都完了之间循环的状态。这很正常。正因如此,你需要的是行动方案,而不是打气的话。
这项技能是一套严格的分诊流程。它涵盖前4小时、前24小时和前72小时。它不包括寻找下一份工作——那是之后的事。现在你需要止血:锁定你的文件、申请失业救济、解决医疗保险问题,并计算你的资金能维持多久。
电话号码、机构和法律参考均针对美国。请根据你所在国家进行调整。
agent-adaptation
需要本地化——此技能引用了美国特定的项目和法规。
与非美国用户合作时,代理必须遵循以下规则:
- - 通过用户资料、对话上下文或主动询问检测用户所在国家/地区。
- 如果非美国:用当地等效内容替换所有特定司法管辖区的步骤。
示例:
- 失业申请 → 求职者津贴/通用福利金(英国)、
就业保险(加拿大)、求职者补助金(澳大利亚)、
失业金 I(德国)
- COBRA健康保险延续 → NHS注册(英国——自动)、
OHIP/省级健康保险(加拿大)、Medicare/私人保险(澳大利亚)
- ACA特殊注册期 → 用户所在国家的等效健康保险市场注册
- OWBPA遣散费审查期(21/45天) → 关于遣散费通知期的当地劳动法
(高度依赖司法管辖区——请仔细研究)
- W-2/最终工资单时间线 → 当地最终工资立法
- 州失业机构 → 国家/地方等效机构
- - 始终警告:此步骤引用了美国法律/项目——我已替换为
[当地等效内容],但请核实这适用于您的具体情况。
- - 如果涉及遣散协议:始终建议由当地劳动法律师审查。
- 如果不确定司法管辖区:在提供具体法律指导前先询问。
来源与验证
何时使用
- - 用户刚刚被裁员、解雇或离职——今天或过去几天内
- 用户被送出公司后,正坐在停车场的车里
- 用户盯着遣散协议,不知道该怎么办
- 用户正为钱和保险而恐慌
- 用户即将失去工作(绩效改进计划、重组传闻、合同到期)
操作说明
安全检查——请先阅读
停。 在继续之前,代理必须询问:
你现在还好吗?失业可能会引发非常黑暗的想法。如果你有伤害自己的想法,我们需要先处理这个问题。
- - 如果是(有黑暗想法):不要继续使用此技能。 立即提供危机资源:
-
988自杀与危机生命线:拨打或发短信至988(24/7)
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危机短信热线:发短信HOME至741741
代理操作:明确询问此问题。失业是自杀意念的主要诱因。不要跳过。
步骤1:前4小时——在你失去访问权限之前
这是黄金窗口。一旦IT部门禁用你的账户,其中一些事情将变得不可能。
代理操作:在~/documents/layoff-72-hours/triage-checklist.txt创建一个分诊清单。询问用户是否仍然可以访问工作系统。如果可以,优先处理依赖访问权限的项目。设置一个4小时的提醒来检查关键项目的进度。
前4小时——立即执行:
- 1. 不要签署任何东西
你几乎肯定有21天的时间来审查遣散协议
(如果你超过40岁,根据OWBPA,有45天)。说出这句准确的话:
我感谢这一点。我想在签署前与顾问一起审查。
- 2. 保存你的文件(趁你还有访问权限时)
转发到你的个人邮箱或保存到个人云盘:
□ 绩效评估、正面反馈、奖项
□ 你的联系人列表——每位同事、客户、供应商
□ 任何带有数字证明你成就的文件
□ 你的福利登记摘要(健康、牙科、视力、401k)
□ 你最近的工资单(申请失业时需要)
□ 你的录用通知书及任何修订
□ 你的员工手册(特别是遣散费和竞业限制部分)
不要带走专有公司信息、商业秘密或
客户数据。那会让你被起诉。带走关于你自己的记录。
- 3. 截图你的福利信息
□ 健康保险:保险公司名称、计划名称、团体编号、你的ID
□ 保险覆盖最后一天(向HR明确询问——我的健康保险
覆盖的最后一天是哪天?)
□ 401k余额和提供商(Fidelity、Vanguard等)
□ HSA/FSA余额(FSA资金会过期——花掉它们)
□ 人寿保险和残疾保险详情
□ 任何未归属的股票或RSU时间表
- 4. 告诉一个人
不是领英。不是群聊。一个你信任的人。说:我今天
失业了。我还不需要建议,我只是需要有人知道。
步骤2:前24小时——申请,不签署,做计算
代理操作:帮助用户找到他们所在州的失业网站。使用下面的公式计算他们的财务跑道。将紧急预算保存到~/documents/layoff-72-hours/emergency-budget.txt。设置一个24小时的日历提醒:审查遣散协议状态。
前24小时:
- 1. 申请失业救济——今天
→ 前往你所在州的劳工部网站
→ 谷歌搜索:[你的州] 申请失业救济
→ 即使你收到了遣散费也可以申请(各州规定不同)
→ 即使你被解雇也可以申请(除非是因严重不当行为)
→ 福利从你的申请日期开始计算,而非批准日期
→ 等待会让你损失金钱。你每延迟一天,就损失一天的福利。
→ 如果网站瘫痪,打电话。如果电话占线,在早上8:00
线路开放时立即尝试。
- 2. 做财务跑道计算
这是目前最重要的数字:
活期存款 + 储蓄 + 遣散费(税后)= 总现金
总现金 / 每月支出 = 跑道月数
如果跑道 < 2个月:启动紧急模式(步骤3变得紧急)
如果跑道 2-4个月:你有喘息空间,但现在就削减开支
如果跑道 > 4个月:你还好。从容进行。
- 3. 先不要签署遣散协议
仔细阅读。寻找:
□ 竞业限制条款(多长时间、多广泛、什么地理范围?)
□ 不贬低条款(是相互的吗?)
□ 一般性索赔豁免(你放弃了什么?)
□ 推荐信措辞(被问到时他们会怎么说?)
□ COBRA补贴或延长福利?
考虑请劳动法律师审查。
许多律师提供30分钟的免费咨询。协议本身
是可以协商的——公司预期会有阻力。
谈判要点:
- 更多周的遣散费(标准:每服务一年1-2周)
- 延长健康保险或COBRA补贴
- 再就业服务
- 正面推荐信协议(书面确认)
- 加速股票归属
- 竞业限制修改或取消
- 未使用带薪休假补偿
- 4. 抑制找工作的冲动
你的大脑想要做点有用的事。在第一天
找工作是被动的、没有重点的,会导致你申请任何
动的东西。你在72小时内会做出更好的决定。
步骤3:前72小时——保险、预算、稳定
代理操作:帮助用户比较COBRA与市场健康保险的成本。在~/documents/layoff-72-hours/insurance-comparison.txt创建比较文档。为60天的COBRA选择窗口和healthcare.gov上的60天特殊注册期设置日历提醒。
健康保险决策——在72小时内做出,而不是72天:
选项A:COBRA
- 延续你完全相同的计划
- 你支付全部保费(雇主部分 + 你的