Mediator Skill
Emotional firewall for difficult relationships. Intercepts messages from configured contacts, strips out emotional content, presents just the facts, and helps draft measured responses.
Quick Start
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Configuration
Config lives at ~/.clawdbot/mediator.yaml:
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Modes
- - intercept: Archive/hide original, only show summary. User never sees raw emotional content.
- assist: Show original but also provide summary and response suggestions.
Summarize Options
- - facts-only: Extract only actionable items, requests, deadlines. No emotion.
- neutral: Rewrite the message in neutral tone, preserving all content.
- full: Show everything but flag emotional/manipulative language.
Respond Options
- - draft: Generate suggested response, wait for approval before sending.
- auto: Automatically respond (use with extreme caution).
How It Works
Email Flow
- 1. Gmail Pub/Sub notification arrives (real-time)
- Check if sender matches any configured contact
- If match:
- Fetch full email content
- Process through LLM to extract facts/strip emotion
- Archive original (apply "Mediator/Raw" label, mark read)
- Send summary to configured notify channel
- If response needed, draft one
iMessage Flow
- 1.
imsg watch monitors for new messages - Check if sender matches configured contact
- If match:
- Process message content
- Send summary to notify channel
- Draft response if requested
Scripts
- -
mediator.sh - Main CLI wrapper - INLINECODE3 - Email processing logic
- INLINECODE4 - iMessage processing logic
- INLINECODE5 - LLM-based content analysis and summarization
Integration
Heartbeat Check
Add to HEARTBEAT.md:
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Cron (for more frequent checking)
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Safety Notes
- - Never auto-respond to legal, financial, or child-related messages
- Original messages are archived, not deleted (recoverable)
- All actions logged to INLINECODE7
- Review and adjust prompts if summaries miss important context
Example Output
Original email:
I can't BELIEVE you would do this to me AGAIN. After everything I've done for you!!! You NEVER think about anyone but yourself. I need you to pick up the kids at 3pm on Saturday and if you can't even do THAT then I don't know what to say anymore.
Mediator summary:
From: Ex Partner
Channel: Email
Action Required: Yes
Request: Pick up kids at 3pm Saturday
Suggested response:
"Confirmed. I'll pick up the kids at 3pm on Saturday."
See
references/prompts.md for the LLM prompts used in processing.
调解者技能
针对困难关系的情感防火墙。拦截来自已配置联系人的消息，剥离情感内容，仅呈现事实，并协助起草得体的回复。
快速开始
bash
初始化配置（若缺失则创建 mediator.yaml）
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh init
添加需要调解的联系人
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh add 前伴侣 \
--email ex@email.com \
--phone +15551234567 \
--channels email,imessage
处理传入消息（通常由 cron/心跳机制调用）
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh check
列出已配置的联系人
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh list
移除联系人
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh remove 前伴侣
配置
配置文件位于 ~/.clawdbot/mediator.yaml：
yaml
mediator:
# 全局设置
archive_originals: true # 处理后将原始消息归档
notify_channel: telegram # 发送摘要的渠道（telegram|slack|imessage）
contacts:
- name: 前伴侣
email: ex@email.com
phone: +15551234567
channels: [email, imessage]
mode: intercept # intercept | assist
summarize: facts-only # facts-only | neutral | full
respond: draft # draft | auto（危险）
- name: 难缠客户
email: client@company.com
channels: [email]
mode: assist # 不隐藏原文，仅协助回复
summarize: neutral
respond: draft
模式
- - intercept：归档/隐藏原文，仅显示摘要。用户永远看不到原始情感内容。
- assist：显示原文，同时提供摘要和回复建议。
摘要选项
- - facts-only：仅提取可操作事项、请求、截止日期。不含情感。
- neutral：以中性语气重写消息，保留所有内容。
- full：显示全部内容，但标记情感化/操纵性语言。
回复选项
- - draft：生成建议回复，发送前等待批准。
- auto：自动回复（请极度谨慎使用）。
工作原理
邮件流程
- 1. 接收 Gmail Pub/Sub 通知（实时）
- 检查发件人是否匹配已配置的联系人
- 若匹配：
- 获取完整邮件内容
- 通过 LLM 处理以提取事实/剥离情感
- 归档原始邮件（应用调解者/原始标签，标记为已读）
- 将摘要发送至配置的通知渠道
- 如需回复，起草回复内容
iMessage 流程
- 1. imsg watch 监控新消息
- 检查发件人是否匹配已配置的联系人
- 若匹配：
- 处理消息内容
- 将摘要发送至通知渠道
- 按需起草回复
脚本
- - mediator.sh - 主 CLI 封装
- process-email.py - 邮件处理逻辑
- process-imessage.py - iMessage 处理逻辑
- summarize.py - 基于 LLM 的内容分析与摘要
集成
心跳检查
添加到 HEARTBEAT.md：
调解者检查
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh check
Cron（用于更频繁的检查）
bash
工作时间内每5分钟检查一次
/5 9-18 * 1-5 ~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh check
安全提示
- - 切勿自动回复涉及法律、财务或子女相关的消息
- 原始消息会被归档而非删除（可恢复）
- 所有操作记录在 ~/.clawdbot/logs/mediator.log
- 若摘要遗漏重要上下文，请审查并调整提示词
示例输出
原始邮件：
我简直不敢相信你又要这样对我！！！我为你做了那么多，你却从来只考虑自己！周六下午3点你必须来接孩子，如果连这都做不到，那我真的无话可说了。
调解者摘要：
发件人： 前伴侣
渠道： 邮件
需要操作： 是
请求： 周六下午3点接孩子
建议回复：
确认。我会在周六下午3点来接孩子。
处理过程中使用的 LLM 提示词请参见 references/prompts.md。
